Stay with me Pretty ones.
BDSM DOESN'T CURE EVERYTHING BUT IT DOES HAVE BENEFITS WHICH CAN PROMOTE HEALING.
(as always results will vary based on individual differences)
1) Some people use BDSM as a break. There's no thinking when you hit deep subspace. You're completely in the moment. At times it can be an almost meditative state (comparable to yoga). Top & subspace or the flow as some refer to it reduces stress hormones.
>>> In Zombies Suck Cutter needs this peace so his mind can find a different path for dealing with negative influences. Does it stop him from cutting? No but it gives him alternative stimulation which is big enough to drown out the desire to harm himself (& btw finding something to distract yourself from cutting is part of most treatment plans for someone who self abuses).
2) BDSM can release endorphins which are protein molecules. Endorphins regulate pain, stress, and cravings.
3) There was a study published a few years ago suggested BDSM couples "felt more secure in their relationships and had an increased sense of well-being. They were more conscientious toward others, more extraverted, more open to trying new experiences, had decreased anxiety, and were less sensitive to others perception. Interestingly, they were also more aware of their own sexual needs but less agreeable.((http://sexualhealth.about.com/od/sextherapy/ss/The-Health-Benefits-of-BDSM.htm))
4) The same study suggested couple felt closer after a successful scenes.
I do believe the troupe of BDSM healing all is based in reality (at least in my experience and opinion).
This is a simple bracelet... but for someone with anxiety it can remind them of the calm they experience when secured with rope as well as give them some of the benefits BDSM has been shown to give.
And if the bracelet isn't enough of a reminder they open up into sturdy cuffs.
They come in various colors and designs. I worked with a charming man who custom made these for me. His website is
Zombies Suck Blurb:
Forget undead corpses searching for brains. These zombies crave a
different kind of head that keeps them young forever. Club Zombie offers safe
haven, providing sexy ways to extract what they need from patrons, and the
opportunity to find their destined mate.
Alex Waterman is ashamed of his “vile, unnatural desires” and
lives a in a desolate world of loneliness and suffering until discovering… it’s
not his life. Suddenly he’s swept away to a place where his desires aren't
evil, they’re a mark of the dominant he’s born to be, and appreciative stares
and aggressive flirting replace fear and self-loathing. But one night stands
aren’t on the menu: Alex seeks “the one” to complete the missing piece of his
soul.
Boy-next-door Ulrich calls to Alex, as does the gorgeous but
self-destructive Cutter, and an element of irresistible danger clings to bad
boy Storm. How can Alex decide between three tempting possibilities?
Maybe he should keep them all…
Pre-Order Link: Zombies Suck
Hugs, Z.
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