Thursday, March 21, 2019

4 out of 5 men don't think mutual masturbation is a 'gay' act

Sometimes M/M romance is criticized for not being realistic.

How could a 'straight' man start a sexual relationship with another man?

Let's ignore that some men are bisexual & may not be aware of their orientation or demisexual - need a connection to experience attraction and maybe not be aware of it.

This article discusses a mindset not everyone is aware of... instead of summarizing I'm going to quote Joe Morgan.

"...to his surprise, he found 82% of 565 respondents said mutual masturbation isn’t gay.

For the second question, he also asked about various actions which ‘makes’ a man gay.

Most men then responded with ‘kissing another guy’ and ‘becoming emotionally involved with a male sex partner’.

‘According to these responders,’ Mustain wrote, ‘touching a cock isn’t gay; lips touching lips is gay; and for that matter, heart touching heart is really gay.’

He added: ‘It can be frustrating, seeing straight men debate the infinitesimal difference between touching your own cock and someone else’s, hearing each one hand-wring about “how far he’ll go,” and whether double penetration or using a Fleshlight on a friend is gay.’" (Gay News Dec. 18, 2018)



So if this is the case > how unrealistic is it for some of these guys 'who have sex with men' to develop feelings?

Hugs, Z.

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