Impact play is consensual spanking, flogging,
paddling, and striking. Spanking is an easy and safe gateway into BDSM. Impact
play/Spanking/Cropping/Whippings is about experiencing pain within a framework
of trust and control that can allow you to leave the bounds of your day-to-day existence,
and soar.
Why Do Folks Participate in Impact
Play?
*The activity can make you feel more submissive.
After all, you’re willingly submitting to someone else’s actions. You (in some
cases) are bending over and taking pain because someone is asking you to.
*Claiming your sexuality.
*You’re being a little naughty and not quite
vanilla you’re dipping your toes into the wild side (& that in and of
itself can be liberating).
*Impact play can be part of a larger role play
which can be fun and stimulating. (Officer & Speeder, Naughty student &
teacher, etc.)
*This activity allows you give up control which
be freeing.
*Relieves stress: Sometimes the impact pulls
you out of your head and forces you to focus on the present moment. (“Shit! Someone
is spanking me. Ow!” You’re no longer worried about your writer’s block, the
piles of work you need to do, laundry that needs to be folded, etc. You can’t
think past the OUCH!)
*Maintenance Spankings: Some Dom(s)/sub(s)
implement a regularly scheduled spanking to: address any “misdeeds”
(real/fake), to keep sub on the right track with a reminder of what happens if
they are naughty or just to spank because the people involved enjoy impact play.
*Punishment: paying for mistakes and giving you
clean slate. It can relieve guilt at a failure. Some of us are wired to want to
do penance so we can move past a mistake.
*Maybe you want to show your obedience to your
Dom/lover(s) and enduring a bit of pain for them is exactly what you want.
*Impact play can cause discomfort or pain but
for some the discipline morphs into something pleasure.
*Orgasm: Some of us can get off on impact play.
How you ask?
Everyone is different but I’ll throw out some
whys I’ve seen, heard, and experienced. (Keep in mind this is not an exhaustive
list.)
Physical: The sensation
awakens nerve endings in the area which makes us more sensitive. Blood rushes
to that area. (You know how massage feels good even though the kneading can
hurt a little as are muscles are being forced to relax? Think about spanking as
a version of massage).
Pain causes the central nervous system to
release endorphins into the body. Direct rhythmic impact can result in orgasm.
(Keep the rhythm steady and expected so the sub can build to release.)
Mental: Impact play can be
mentally gratifying. The willingness to submit wholly to pain for someone else.
The sub might see a spanking as humiliating and get super turned on. Being put
in “one’s place” can push you pass the “typical” and open you up to climax.
((FYI: A bit of a warning: These hands-free
orgasms might be satisfying or they could just be a tease for MORE a lot MORE…
NOW.))
Before Impact Play:
*Make sure everyone understands what will
happen.
*The striker needs to know where it is safe to
hit. Usually sticking with butt and thighs, and avoiding organs.
*A safeword needs to be set.
*No coercion should be involved.
*If adding humiliation into it make sure everyone
is into that otherwise it can go south quick.
Equipment Needed:
Impact play can be done with no equipment
purchased. You can use your hand.
Or items found around the house: a slipper,
back of a brush, a wooden spoon, ruler, etc. Or of course you can get fancy and
go all out. (My humble advice is make sure you enjoy it before you invest.)
Test the Impact:
It’s always recommended the striker test the
impact on themselves to gauge the level of intensity. Impact play can be a
light slap on the butt to the crack of the riding crop. (Make sure you start
slow! A warmup spanking can help ready the skin making more intense equipment
more—interesting)
Adding Words:
Keep in mind if you add words and you might be
adding humiliation or role play into the scene.
(Based on your scene/role play: Teacher: “You
failed. I warned you if you didn’t study and get a good grade on your test what
your punishment would be…” Or a Dom:
“I’m very disappointed in you and you need to be punished.” “You were such a good sub. I’m going to spank
your beautiful bottom until it glows.”
“Tell me how many spanks you should have for your maintenance
spanking?”)
Excerpt from Lock and
Key:
Info: It’s Zack’s birthday. The scene
takes place at a BDSM club called Entwined. Zack has been with each of these
subs before and he already knows the intensity of the paddle (Btw you & me
he’d rather be taking a paddling than giving impact play to others sigh but
that’s an issue that needs solving).
I chose this scene because I wanted
to draw your attention to the different needs and responses each sub had toward
the paddle. Some were into and wanted to be paddled harder and others did not.
***The Dom(s) should be watching the
subs to figure out what they want and need out of impact play, and know what
the role of impact play has in their relationship(s)***
Everyone started to sing, “Happy Birthday to
you!”
When the song drew to a close, someone in the
crowd yelled, “It’s birthday spanking time!”
Orion took the paddle Zack hadn’t noticed Tony
was holding and handed the wood to Zack, handle first. He returned to the line
and pulled down his pants.
Fuck! A line of the
twenty-one cutest butts he’d ever seen were de- pantsed and wiggling for him.
The crowd applauded, and someone shouted out,
“Get to it!”
Each of the subs peeked over their shoulder and
grinned at him.
Orion said, “Give us each two for your
birthday, Sir,” as if it weren’t a flimsy excuse for staging an exhibition.
Fuck! Zack prayed he didn’t stumble and face-plant on the stage.
He focused on the handsome, giving subs rather
than being the center of attention. He traced his hand over each sub’s
presented backside. Soft skin, various skin tones, different sizes... it was a
veritable buffet of spankable bottoms.
When he reached the end of the line, the
bent-over man re-arched his back to give Zack a perfect target, and with a
wicked grin, he said, “Happy birthday, Sir.”
Zack drew back the paddle and whacked the
smooth surface across the rounded butt in front of him. The swat vibrated the
handle.
“One more, Sir,” the sub begged and twitched
his butt, inviting the paddle.
Zack swung and connected.
“Umph! Thank you, Sir.” The first sub jumped up
and rubbed his ass with two hands.
Wow! Zack stared down
the lineup of men stretching across the entire stage, amazed they all had bent
over for him. Focus! He sidestepped to the next sub. He answered the
“Happy birthday, Sir” with one good hard whack followed by a second.
“Thank you, Sir!”
The third sub turned with big blue eyes, biting
his lower lip. Ah, Roberto didn’t like a lot of pain and only enjoyed playful
pats. It melted Zack’s heart that he would participate in this celebration
anyway.
“Happy birthday, Sir.” His voice cracked.
Zack respected the bravery and tapped him twice
with a light touch on the bottom.
The sub mouthed, “Thank you.”
The next submissive liked it hard. Zack
complied and slammed the paddle down on the pristine cheeks, leaving two red
rectangles.
“Mmmmm, thank you, Sir.”
Zack shuffled down the line, doling out the
paddle smacks according to each sub’s needs. Some he pulled back and stepped
into the swing to add an extra wallop, and for others he barely touched the
wood to their skin.
The surreal nature of this scene hit him as he
glanced back down the line of the subs. Some were rubbing their butts, a few
had other subs rub their asses for them, and others had their pants back up,
arms folded, and watching the live action.
Tony jumped up as he squealed, “Thank you, Sir.”
The big man liked the afterglow and the sting but not the stroke it took to get
there.
Zack didn’t look out at the audience, but he
couldn’t help but wonder if Andrew had shown. They didn’t see each other much
at the club, though that didn’t stop his stupid heart from racing when he
caught a glimpse of him. Or the slice of inappropriate jealousy that stabbed
him in the gut whenever Andrew went into or came out of the back rooms.
He continued down the line, slapping asses.
Xander winked at him. “Happy Birthday, Sir.” He
turned his head forward and twitched his ass back and forth, as if his ass
alone wasn’t enticing enough.
Zack smacked the twerkable backside with a good
solid whack. “Again, Sir!”
After pulling back, Zack connected with a loud pop.
After pulling back, Zack connected with a loud pop.
Xander popped up and rubbed his ass. “Ow! Thank you, Sir.” Orion happened to be last in line.
Zack doubted he’d ever give Orion what he
needed, but he’d try to come close. He pulled the paddle over his shoulder.
“Happy Birthday, Sir. Hard, please.” Orion
grunted at the impact. “Mmmm, thank you, Sir.”
Zack rubbed the red outline of the paddle on
Orion’s ass. Damn, that would be painful.
The man pushed the curtain of hair out of his
face and asked, “How about one for good luck, Sir?”
The audience laughed.
Zack shrugged and gave Orion what he asked for
by putting his weight into the swing. The pop of the paddle echoed through the
room. “And one for good luck.”
Everyone applauded.
Zack surveyed the subs. No one appeared worse
for the wear from the paddle kisses.
***You can find the rest of Lock and Key:
Buy Link***
Last Thoughts:
I’m a strong believer in keeping spanking
between consenting adults. I knew I was “kinky” at four thankfully I wasn’t hit
as a child because that would have been bizarrely confusing and upsetting. (Studies
show spanking doesn’t work long-term and can have negative lasting effects.)
Always seek your own truth.
I’d love to hear from you so comment here or use the
contact information to touch base with me privately.
Many hugs,
Z. Allora
To contact Z. Allora:
E-mail: Z.AlloraHappyEndings@gmail.com
Website: www.zallorabooks.com
Twitter: @ZAllora
Dreamspinner: https://bit.ly/2Jv14r1
BIO: Z. Allora believes in happily ever after for
everyone. She met her own true love through the personals and has traveled to
over thirty countries with him. She’s lived in Singapore, Israel and China. Now
back home to the USA she’s an active member of PFLAG and a strong supporter of
those on the rainbow in her community. She wants to promote understanding and
acceptance through her actions and words. Writing rainbow romance allows her
the opportunity to open hearts and change minds.